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Welcome to Ambassadors of Reconciliation's third international conference.  This year we are collaborating with the Institute for Christian Conciliation to bring the world of conciliation together. We are excited you are here! We will be meeting in St. Louis, MO. With great local attractions, St. Louis provides many exciting opportunities for sightseeing, activities or just relaxing.

Our conference is packed with inspirational speakers  and dozens of educational workshops led by peacemaking experts and centered on God, His Word and His plan for cultivating lifestyles of reconciliation.


A Life-Changing Event!

Whether you are new to biblical reconciliation or you have been through training and already serve as a reconciler, this conference has something for you! This conference will include opportunity to attend any or all of our seminars and training plus much more!  Here are a few reactions from previous attendees:

"My sister and I hadn’t talked for two years. Following the seminar, I took the first step and now we’re reconciled."

"Seeing conflict as an opportunity helped me to stop running away from my family problems!"

"I asked my employee for forgiveness, which led to a discussion about my faith in Christ. Now he wants a copy of the Bible study I attended!"

"You don’t know how much this changed my life – just ask my wife and children!"

You will be challenged in the same way to live, proclaim, and cultivate lifestyles of reconciliation in the family, workplace, and church.

Pre-Conference Training Schedule

Monday & Tuesday, April 9th & 10th

April 9-10, 2018: Coaching People through Conflict, St. Louis, MO - as low as $299 

Tuesday through Thursday, April 10th - 12th

April 10-12, 2018: Advanced Coaching & Mediation, St. Louis, MO - as low as $599 
April 10-12, 2018: Teaching a Reconciliation Seminar - St. Louis, MO - as low as $599 

Wednesday & Thursday, April 11th & 12th

April 11-12, 2018: Coaching People through Conflict, St. Louis, MO - as low as $299 
April 11-12, 2018: Mediating People Through Conflict, St. Louis, MO - as low as $399 
April 11-12, 2018: Reconciling Husbands and Wives, St. Louis, MO - as low as $399 

Conference Schedule

Thursday, April 12th

4:00pm-7:00pm Registration
7:00pm-8:00pm General Session - Ted Kober, Senior Ambassador and Founder, AoR
8:00pm-9:30pm Reception

Friday, April 13th

7:00am-8:15am Registration
8:15am-9:30am General Session - Speaker to be announced
9:30am-9:45am Break
9:45am-10:45am Workshop Session 1
10:45am-11:15am Break
11:15am-12:15pm Workshop Session 2
12:15pm-2:00pm Lunch (Included with your registration!)
2:00pm-3:00pm Workshop Session 3
3:00pm-3:30pm Break
3:30pm-4:30pm Workshop Session 4

6:30pm-8:00pm Fellowship, Supper and our Future - Dwight Schettler, President, AoR

Saturday, April 14th

8:15am-9:30am General Session - Speaker to be announced
9:30am-9:45am Break
9:45am-10:45am Workshop Session 5
10:45am-11:00am Break
11:00am-11:45am Closing Session - Speaker to be announced


Conference Location


Pre-Conference Training Location

 First Free Church

 Chapel of the Cross Lutheran Church

1375 Carman Road
Manchester, MO 63021
907 Jungerman Rd
St Peters, MO 63376


  Ted Kober serves as Founder and Senior Ambassador of Ambassadors of Reconciliation. Since AoR’s founding, he served as President until 2015. Ted has published articles, Bible studies, devotions, and books including Confession & Forgiveness (CPH, 2002) Cultivating Lifestyles of Reconciliation (co-authored with Ken Sande; AoR, 2009), and Built on the Rock: The Healthy Congregation (CPH, 2017). He teaches in church-worker conferences, schools, universities, and seminaries throughout the world, and as an adjunct instructor for Peacemaker Ministries (US) and PeaceWise (Australia). He has equipped church body leaders from more than 35 countries. A Certified Christian Conciliator™ since 1992, Ted consults and conciliates in cases ranging from personal disputes to lawsuits and church conflicts. Prior to reconciliation work, he owned or managed more than 30 different companies, and he resolved fifty-nine legal disputes in one estate. He has served on more than 50 boards of directors, including for the Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod. A lifetime member of Trinity Lutheran Church in Billings, Montana, he occasionally plays organ for worship. He and wife Sonja live in Billings. They have one son and two grandchildren.

Pastor Brian Noble serves as Executive Director of Peacemaker Ministries. He started serving Peacemaker Ministries in March of 2017. He is an everyday guy who loves Jesus. He has a wife and four children; they currently reside in eastern Washington. Brian has a masters of arts in missional leadership from Northwest University. An ordained minister with the Assemblies of God for the past 20 years (3 years as a youth pastor, 14 years as a senior pastor, and 3 year as an executive pastor), he proclaims hope through the gospel message as the Holy Spirit empowers believers in their daily walk. He believes in the power of the word of God to transform lives. He has been a Certified Christian Conciliator since 2008, with 1000+ hours conflict coaching and mediation experience. His caseload has ranged from husband and wife cases, to family farm, to public schools, and even county government. Brian has taught peacemaking in local jails and internationally in Uganda. He is also trained secularly through Fulcrum Dispute Resolution Clinic, handling small claims court cases and parenting plan cases for the state of Idaho and Washington. He has a dream to impact 5,000 pastors and their churches, 5,000 workplace leaders, 20,000 marriages, empower 784 missionaries to engage their respective countries and to organize 10 cities of reconciliation outreaches.
Ken Sande is the founder of Peacemaker Ministries and Relational Wisdom 360. Trained as an engineer, lawyer, and mediator, Ken has conciliated hundreds of family, business, church, and legal conflicts. As president of RW360, he now focuses on teaching people how to “get upstream of conflict” by building strong relationships in the family, church, and workplace. He teaches internationally and is the author of numerous books, articles, and training resources, including The Peacemaker, which has been translated into fifteen languages. He is a Certified Relational Wisdom Instructor and Conciliator, Emotional Intelligence Certified Instructor (through TalentSmart), and has served as a church elder and as an Editorial Adviser for Christianity Today. He and his wife, Corlette, have two adult children and a growing number of grandchildren, and love to hike and ski in the mountains near their home in Billings, Montana.
  Dwight Schettler serves as President of Ambassadors of Reconciliation.  He joined the staff of Ambassadors of Reconciliation in February 2014 as Vice President for Advancement.  He also served on AoR's Board of Directors.  Prior to joining Ambassadors, Dwight served four years as Director of Training & Certification for Peacemaker Ministries. In this role he oversaw many facets of ministry delivery, including all foundational and advanced training courses, Peacemaker seminars, the annual Peacemaker Conference, the Certification Program, peacemaker field support, and Peacemaker University–Peacemaker Ministries’ new online e-learning portal. He teaches reconciliation seminars and training events around the country and remains an adjunct instructor for Peacemaker Ministries. Dwight was introduced to biblical peacemaking as a party in a conflict where Ambassadors of Reconciliation led an intervention in his home church. He credits that experience as a turning point in his life. He is passionate about teaching and equipping others to be peacemakers who apply the power of the Gospel in their everyday lives. Prior to joining Peacemaker Ministries, he was with Hewlett Packard for more than 22 years, holding a variety of leadership positions, most recently being Director of Engineering in their Imaging and Printing business. Dwight and his wife Ruth have two children and two grandchildren.


There are more than 20 workshops with topics including:

  • Conflict Resolution vs. Reconciliation
  • Responding to Sexual Temptation in a High Tech Society
  • Effective Coaching Homework
  • Built on the Rock; The Healthy Congregations
  • Careless Talk and Its Impact on Reconciliation
  • Suffering Through Reconciliation
  • Teaching Reconciliation in Foreign Cultures
  • Reconciliation Ministries in the Local Church
  • Group (Church) Reconciliation Assistance
  • Reconciling When They Are Angry
  • Family Confession and Forgiveness
  • Loving Others Enough to Reconcile
  • Effects of Bitterness on Reconciliation
  • Reconciling Where Authority Gets In The Way
  • Confession: A Cornerstone of Reconciliation
  • Forgiveness: Another Cornerstone of Reconciliation
  • Reconciliation Rooted in Our Identity
  • Fears' Impact On Reconciliation
  • Those Things We Crave
  • In ____ We Trust



Drury Inn
5 Lambert Drury Pl
Valley Park, MO 63088
(636) 861-8300

Hampton Inn
9 Lambert Drury Pl
Valley Park, MO 63088
(636) 529-9020




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